5. They don’t know how to manage their money
I once knew a guy, who (while I was attending college classes on a modest budget) was driving a luxury car that was worth close to $100,000 dollars. You might be wondering, how I know how much the car cost…well, I did look it up online. But the reality is I didn’t need to look online, this guy was so arrogant that he bragged about his “slammin ride,” almost every chance he got. Now, I don’t have a problem with someone spending a little extra money on nice things (sometimes), I mean we’ve all splurged at one point or another and that’s absolutely fine. But owning a $100,000 dollar car when you don’t even have a college degree or a steady income, that is beyond ridiculous. I mean where did he even get the money for that, I wonder…I hope he wasn’t involved in any illegal activity. Most men like nice cars, but Stupid Black men are ADDICTED to spending money on nice cars when they don’t even have money to pay rent, let alone a mortgage! I mean how many rap songs where all I hear is Stupid Black men bragging about “riding dirty in an escalade with rims…” am I going to have to listen to before I vomit? It makes me sick…literally. Stupid Black men screw up their credit (if they have any) for this stuff. Truth be told, stupid Black men need to stop bragging about riding in a car that’s manufactured, produced and owned by the white (or asian) man. Get something for yourself, for once….
4. Their extreme infidelity
I know, I know. Most men in this country sleep around, I understand. But Stupid Black men are the undeniable KINGS of infidelity. Other stupid men, don’t even come close! It is extremely reckless male behavior and probably goes back to the fact that stupid Black men have such low self esteem that they don’t value themselves for anything other than their ability to “dick down,” as many women as possible. Like many Stupid men who are reckless, this probably comes from low self worth and just plain stupidity. Stupid Black men KNOW that they’re at the bottom of the socio-economic totem pole, so it stands to reason that they would compensate by being overly sexual. But, wait if they’re on the bottom of the socio-economic totem pole, then what women are banging them? Excellent question. 1. It is a known fact that women with no other options and low self esteem, generally will go for Stupid Black men. 2. In addition, when they do attract women outside their race, they are usually the ones that the men of their own race aren’t particularly interested in…for whatever reason. Still don’t agree, eh? Fair enough, but hear me out. When I was in college, none of the quality girls ever expressed interest in Stupid Black men, but whenever I saw a woman with a Stupid Black man, I was consistently amazed at how unkempt and otherwise undesirable the woman was. I mean these Stupid Black men were like garbage men. They picked up the women that no one else wanted…it was amazing.
3. Just about none of them pay child support
Being broke and sleeping around has consequences—namely, children. Every single Stupid Black man I’ve interacted with, known and talked to has expressed that they have children and seldom are they able to pay their child support. All of them. To make things worse, some of them have MULTIPLE CHILDREN with multiple women AND STILL can’t pay child support, yet they have new cars with rims…I don’t get it.
Everyone loves a party and a wild night or two…until you end up in situations like this
I can hear the child support fugitives with their excuses now: “Well, I shouldn’t have to pay no child support…why should I have to support the children I laid down and made with a woman, especially a Black woman…I’m a REAL MAN…real men don’t need to take care of dey kids!” Look, I’m sorry Stupid Black men, but any real man with common sense knows that you are responsible for taking care of the kids that you make with a woman.
2. They’re starting to get fat, too…
It’s a little known secret, that Black men are getting fatter. In fact 70% of Black men over 20 are classified as overweight and even more unfortunate, Black men tend to have higher blood pressure when overweight than Black women. Now, not all overweight Black men are stupid and ultimately, the prevalence of obesity in the Black community stems from a variety of factors, such as lack of healthy foods, inequalities, food deserts and the stress of racism, which is connected to the prevalence of cortisol, the stress hormone that can cause weight gain. But, stupid Black men will take a legitimate health concern and turn it into a petty rivalry and a propaganda tool to be used at their convenience.
Stupid Black men need to get over themselves because they’re dying of obesity-related illness too.
1. They’re not masculine
This is absolutely, BY FAR, the single most appalling feature that Stupid black men exhibit. Having to deal with a typical, Stupid Black man is a HUGE burden and hassle and it just is NOT worth it. Most men with common sense realize that masculinity isn’t defined by how many rims you have or how many gold teeth or bitches you’ve banged…real men understand that masculinity is about accepting your responsibilities as a man, being a provider, a protector and setting an example for future generations. Take my father, for example. He’s an African-American man who worked tirelessly for years to provide for his family. He gave us a beautiful home in safe neighborhood and a wonderful education and the opportunity to travel not only around the country, but the world. He always assumed that it was his responsibility to provide and protect for his family and we, in turn, gave him the utmost respect and love as our father and as a truly good leader of our family. There isn’t a man that I respect or love more than my father and because of his example, I know exactly what to look for in a man. He was a virtuous and caring man and to me that is masculinity. It’s just too bad that Stupid Black men don’t understand the concept of true masculinity. Masculine Black men with their families Women don’t want to date Stupid men who act like immature, selfish little children… no matter how many horrible, despicable rap songs endorse this message. The main point is that Stupid Black men just aren’t masculine. In fact, they’re often losers who no one would want any way. If they just got their acts together and started respecting themselves and others then maybe they’d be able to attract a decent woman who would value them and trust their leadership. One saying, pretty much sums up my point: We, decent Black women, don’t want Stupid Black men, we want real men who respect themselves, respect others and don’t degrade entire groups of people based off of ignorant stereotypes.
I hate that I had to write this blog and this article is in no way directed at ALL Black men or even at “stupid black men,” because not all stupid Black men are the same. It is only directed at stupid Black men who write demeaning and ignorant articles that are prejudiced against ALL Black women. (see below) If you’re not a stupid, prejudiced Black man, this article is not about you. Read next: 5 Reasons Why Ignorant Black Man No Longer Dates Black Women